6 responses to “Anything is possible, except an end to these sorts of stories”

  1. almandite

    It also, of course, reinforces the stereotype that people with disabilities just need to try harder because anything is possible! Which we will now tell you by comparing all disabled people to an Olympic-caliber athlete!

    Hey, able-bodied folks. Why the heck are you not overcoming adversity and becoming an Olympic-caliber athlete? It’s so easy, right? If you just “realize most of your limitations in life are self-imposed”, you, too can do anything!

    So true, and so frustrating!

    This entire entry is made of win (in geeky teenage speak). I really like it.

  2. Rodo

    Yes!

    I have depression and my limitations kind of are self imposed (or percieved as such by many people including myself). Most of the time when I read stories about people who have depression, they end with them having their happily ever after – they got over it, even if it took them twenty years and a lot of suffering. Depresses me even more because I can’t simply try harder and be optimistic. It doesn’t exactly help that everyone around me insists on telling me that everything will miraculously turn out alright eventually. Because in the stories, it always does. Unfortunately, reality isn’t a story.

  3. Astrid

    It also, of course, reinforces the stereotype that people with disabilities just need to try harder because anything is possible! Which we will now tell
    you by comparing all disabled people to an Olympic-caliber athlete!

    The worst with this stereotype is that sometimes disabled people take it over and use it against each other. When I was first diagnosed with autism, I disclosed my diagnosis on a blindness E-mail list (where most members had been driving me away with stuff about blindness being only a physical nuisance, etc.), and got all these replies about how autism shouldn’t be limiting me in achieving what I wanted, either, with references to Temple Grandin. I ain’t Temple Grandin, thank you.

  4. A.W.

    What else does the news tell them? It also tells them that if someone with a disability manages to achieve greatness (whatever that may be) that their aid, prosthetic or disability might be an unfair advantage. I lost count a long time ago of the “You shouldn’t be able to do that” reply I get when someone looks at my art (I can draw whatever I see, so long as it isn’t moving, and pretty damn sure it ties into my disability) and then they remember that I’ve a visual impairment and they get rude. I’m also heavily reminded of the track runners and the controversy of them being seen as good as regular athletes. It’s like, “Oh my God, they sometimes win races against us normal people – Is that prosthetic leg giving them an unfair advantage?!” As long as you stay out of their niche they seem to find it inspirational.

  5. thetroubleis

    Oh, the media also tells people it’s okay to kill us. You know all those stories trying to cover how the murder of someone’s child with disabilities was justified , becuase they were just so much work.

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