By s.e. smith on 13 January, 2010
(A slightly different version of this post appeared at this ain’t livin’ under the title “Yes, Actually, I Can Make An Informed Choice“.) There’s an interesting trend I’ve been noticing more of late at feminist websites: The idea that certain women don’t know what’s good for them. These women need to be told in no [...]
Posted in bad advice, blaming, bodies, feminism
By s.e. smith on 12 January, 2010
One of the things which inspired the “Dear Imprudence” column here at FWD was the Savage Love column from 30 April, 2009, in which a reader sent in a letter politely asking Dan to stop using “retarded” as an insult. abby jean kindly covered “retarded” for the Ableist Word Profile, explaining the origins of the [...]
Posted in bad advice, Dear Imprudence, language | Tagged Dan Savage, leotarded, PC, Savage Love
By Annaham on 4 November, 2009
[Possible trigger warning for upsetting and ableist language] As some of you may know, I am a graduate student getting my Master’s Degree in Women and Gender Studies. I currently have vague career aspirations of getting my PhD or at least remaining in academia in some capacity; my academic interests primarily have to do with [...]
Posted in accessibility, bad advice, blaming, bodies, identity, language, normality, shaming, social attitudes | Tagged ableism, learning disability, problematic attitudes, university
By s.e. smith on 3 November, 2009
Welcome to our newest intermittent series, “Dear Imprudence,” in which FWD/Forward contributors (and guest bloggers) deconstruct advice columns which offer monumentally bad advice about disability issues. Do you have an advice column you’d like us to deconstruct? Shoot us a link in the comments or via admin at disabledfeminists dot com. Our inaugural entry in [...]
Posted in bad advice, blaming, Dear Imprudence, media and pop culture | Tagged Dear Prudence, Emily Yoffe
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