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		<title>By: Andreva</title>
		<link>http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/12/22/recommended-reading-for-december-22/#comment-5149</link>
		<dc:creator>Andreva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 18:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Check out the California Supreme Court case In re Marriage of Carney from 1979. It&#039;s a very similar issue to the custody issue from the Tribune article. The father, William, had previously had custody of two small sons for 5+ years (the mother had barely visited them), and was injured in an accident, becoming quadriplegic. The mother petitioned for custody and the appeals courts tried to transfer custody to her with arguments such as &quot;there could be no &#039;normal relationship between father and boys&#039; unless William engaged in vigorous sporting activity with his sons.&quot; Fortunately the California Supreme Court overturned that ruling. These are a couple of the good things they said in the case:

&quot;But it has at least been understood that a boy need not prove his masculinity on the playing fields of Eton, nor must a man compete with his son in athletics in order to be a good father: their relationship is no less &#039;normal&#039; if it is built on shared experiences in such fields of interest as science, music, arts and crafts, history or travel, or in pursuing such classic hobbies as stamp or coin collecting. In short, an afternoon that a father and son spend together at a museum or the zoo is surely no less enriching than an equivalent amount of time spent catching either balls or fish.

Even more damaging is the fact that the court&#039;s preconception herein, wholly apart from its outdated presumption of proper gender roles, also stereotypes William as a person deemed forever unable to be a good parent simply because he is physically handicapped. Like most stereotypes, this is both false and demeaning.&quot;

Since it&#039;s a California state case, it&#039;s not direct precedent for this Illinois one, but courts tend to pay attention to previous court rulings in similar issues like this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check out the California Supreme Court case In re Marriage of Carney from 1979. It&#8217;s a very similar issue to the custody issue from the Tribune article. The father, William, had previously had custody of two small sons for 5+ years (the mother had barely visited them), and was injured in an accident, becoming quadriplegic. The mother petitioned for custody and the appeals courts tried to transfer custody to her with arguments such as &#8220;there could be no &#8216;normal relationship between father and boys&#8217; unless William engaged in vigorous sporting activity with his sons.&#8221; Fortunately the California Supreme Court overturned that ruling. These are a couple of the good things they said in the case:</p>
<p>&#8220;But it has at least been understood that a boy need not prove his masculinity on the playing fields of Eton, nor must a man compete with his son in athletics in order to be a good father: their relationship is no less &#8216;normal&#8217; if it is built on shared experiences in such fields of interest as science, music, arts and crafts, history or travel, or in pursuing such classic hobbies as stamp or coin collecting. In short, an afternoon that a father and son spend together at a museum or the zoo is surely no less enriching than an equivalent amount of time spent catching either balls or fish.</p>
<p>Even more damaging is the fact that the court&#8217;s preconception herein, wholly apart from its outdated presumption of proper gender roles, also stereotypes William as a person deemed forever unable to be a good parent simply because he is physically handicapped. Like most stereotypes, this is both false and demeaning.&#8221;</p>
<p>Since it&#8217;s a California state case, it&#8217;s not direct precedent for this Illinois one, but courts tend to pay attention to previous court rulings in similar issues like this.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Smith</title>
		<link>http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/12/22/recommended-reading-for-december-22/#comment-5143</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 13:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I blogged the Kaney O&#039;Neill case &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.blogistan.co.uk/blog/mt.php/2009/12/20/kaney_oneill_whos_an_unfit_parent_then&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.

Also, I thought &lt;a href=&quot;http://wildkat.co.uk/speaking/?p=165&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt; might be of interest for your next recommended reading list.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I blogged the Kaney O&#8217;Neill case <a href="http://www.blogistan.co.uk/blog/mt.php/2009/12/20/kaney_oneill_whos_an_unfit_parent_then" rel="nofollow">here</a>.</p>
<p>Also, I thought <a href="http://wildkat.co.uk/speaking/?p=165" rel="nofollow">this post</a> might be of interest for your next recommended reading list.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
		<link>http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/12/22/recommended-reading-for-december-22/#comment-5139</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 07:29:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My two able-bodied parents didn&#039;t teach me to write, paint, or play ball either. I don&#039;t think it had any sort of adverse effect on my development. And second of all, who the heck says she can&#039;t teach her kid to do those things? Oh yeah, jerks say that.
I can almost understand the father. People will do just about anything to be with their kids. But the chorus of people jumping to support his argument? Gross.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My two able-bodied parents didn&#8217;t teach me to write, paint, or play ball either. I don&#8217;t think it had any sort of adverse effect on my development. And second of all, who the heck says she can&#8217;t teach her kid to do those things? Oh yeah, jerks say that.<br />
I can almost understand the father. People will do just about anything to be with their kids. But the chorus of people jumping to support his argument? Gross.</p>
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		<title>By: lauredhel</title>
		<link>http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/12/22/recommended-reading-for-december-22/#comment-5138</link>
		<dc:creator>lauredhel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 07:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Avendya: I typically get these items rapidly on a Google alert, often before there are any comments (and sometimes avoid reading any comments on news articles myself at all for the reasons you identify.) I can put a blanket warning back on all the Recommended Reading posts if that would help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Avendya: I typically get these items rapidly on a Google alert, often before there are any comments (and sometimes avoid reading any comments on news articles myself at all for the reasons you identify.) I can put a blanket warning back on all the Recommended Reading posts if that would help.</p>
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		<title>By: Avendya</title>
		<link>http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/12/22/recommended-reading-for-december-22/#comment-5137</link>
		<dc:creator>Avendya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 06:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Could you warn for ableist comments on the Tribune article?  The article itself was very good; the comments made me want to throw things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Could you warn for ableist comments on the Tribune article?  The article itself was very good; the comments made me want to throw things.</p>
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